Herbossiness – Thoughts and perspective on living fully, intentionally, and without apology.

Home for my collective thoughts on living fully, intentionally, and without apology.

Herbossiness explores how we live, work, and show up — with more intention and less stress.
It’s a space for people who carry a lot of quiet responsibility—and want their life to feel more like their own again.

You’ve been everything for everyone—

Showing up, holding it down, making it happen.
And somewhere along the way, you got pushed to the edges of your own life.

But what happens when the one person you’ve been missing… is you?

Herbossiness isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about coming home to yourself — unapologetically.

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The Selfulist

Reflections, rebellions, and realignments for a Selful life.
Honest thoughts on power, purpose, and peace—without the perfection.

Stories that invite reflection, question what you’ve been settling for, and explore what’s possible when you stop putting yourself on the back burner and start showing up selfully.

Live intentionally. Say no to autopilot.
Design a life where your choices and not your circumstances lead the way.

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A Place to Pause

Whether you’re here to reconnect, rediscover, or just exhale — welcome.
You’re not behind. You’re not too late. You’re right on time for you.

So go ahead — take up space.
Start where you are.
The rest? We’ll figure it out together.
More than self-care. It’s Selful Living.