You’ve been everything for everyone—
Showing up, holding it down, making it happen.
And somewhere along the way, you got pushed to the edges of your own life.
But what happens when the one person you’ve been missing… is you?
Herbossiness isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about coming home to yourself — unapologetically.
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The Selfulist
Reflections, rebellions, and realignments for a Selful life.
Honest thoughts on power, purpose, and peace—without the perfection.
Stories that make you think, question what you’ve been settling for, and see what’s possible when you stop putting yourself on the back burner and start showing up selfully.
Live intentionally. Say no to autopilot.
Design a life where your choices and not your circumstances lead the way.
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Life is messy. This newsletter doesn’t pretend it’s not.
Every month, I share real-life experiences — taking risks, navigating chaos, being vulnerable, and choosing myself even when it wasn’t popular.
It’s where I unpack the truths that don’t fit neatly into a quote box — hard-earned wisdom meant to help you see your own life with more clarity, courage, and conviction.
Real talk for Real growth
The first two issues are free. After that, it’s for those who want more.
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From books and apparel to the small reminders that shift your day, every piece is intentionally designed to support a selful life — one rooted in clarity, courage, and choice.
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Welcome Home
Whether you’re here to reconnect, rediscover, or just exhale — welcome.
You’re not behind. You’re not too late. You’re right on time for you.
So go ahead — take up space.
Start where you are.
The rest? We’ll figure it out together.
More than self-care. It’s Selful Living.