If you’ve been craving a reset but keep waiting for the “right time” or the “right travel partner,” this post is for you. Sometimes the path back to yourself starts with a one-way ticket and the courage to say yes.
Category: The Selful Revolution
Mindset, reflection, and living beyond self-care.
Because bubble baths can’t fix burnout. The Selful Revolution challenges the myth of balance and redefines what it means to put yourself first—without guilt. Explore mindset shifts, rituals, and reflections that move you from self-maintenance to Selful mastery.
In Her Voice
The Quiet Revolution
There’s a particular weight that settles in your chest when you realize you’ve been carrying everyone else’s storms while your own garden withers. We collect other people’s anxieties like worry stones, smooth them with our attention until our pockets are heavy with concerns that were never meant to be ours.
Here’s what no one tells you about establishing boundaries: it feels like betrayal at first. But your peace isn’t something you have to earn through endless service. It’s your birthright.
In Her Voice
Sis, Let Me Remind You Who TF You Are
You’ve poured into everyone else for years and now you’re running on fumes, wondering if anyone else even notices. Well, this post is a reminder that you’re still her—wise, worthy, and long overdue for your own spotlight. Keep reading. It’s time.
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The Whosa Escape
Feeling tired and drained? That’s a kind of exhaustion no nap can fix. This post is your permission slip to pack a bag, hit pause, and reclaim your peace. Travel isn’t indulgent—it’s necessary. Let me show you why stepping away might be the most potent healing move you make.
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Why Kyoto Japan Caught My Spirit
Some cities you visit, but Kyoto visits you. Among ancient temples and whispered gardens, Kyoto is a place where time moves differently, silence speaks volumes, and where beauty doesn’t announce itself but simply unfolds with quiet confidence.
The Selful Bookshelf
A Legacy of Resilience, Love, and Unbreakable Spirit
Lessons From Tina Turner Tina Turner was more than a powerhouse vocalist; More than a woman with legs that could stop traffic and a voice that could shake the heavens. She was a force of nature—bold, brilliant, and unwavering. She didn’t just entertain; she taught us how to rise. Born…
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Faith in Action: Tasha Cobbs Leonard
Why Faith Means Showing Up Anyway Tasha Cobbs Leonard’s book, Do It Anyway, is about one word. That word is faith. The book is Tasha’s testimony—her journey of trusting God and what He has enabled her to accomplish in life. She shares personal challenges, takes on projects in which she…
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The Selful Shift
The Art of Betterment Without Ego Personal and professional growth are buzzwords we hear all the time. Yet, they often carry a subtle undertone of competition and comparison. In a world that celebrates hustle culture, it’s easy to think that leveling up includes stepping on someone else’s toes or losing…
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Let Them Go: The Talk You Didn’t Know You Needed
Embracing Growth, Evolving Relationships, and Killin’ It in the New Year This could be you and me—two friends, a glass of wine in hand, keepin’ it real about what it takes to grow, thrive, and let go. You: So, it’s a new year. Can you believe it? This is going…
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Authenticity Under Trial
Reflections on The Color of Law What happens when your carefully constructed image of success begins to crumble? Mark Gimenez’s The Color of Law isn’t just a gripping legal thriller—it’s a profound exploration of identity and authenticity. As I followed the story of A. Scott Fenney, a high-powered attorney whose…